they are a lot more capable than you think they are. Especially when you are not their mum and dad.
真的如果你很愛勞力你就自己去生吧幹麻走勞力路線。your siblings can deal with it perfectly well with, or without you.
只要他們跟你在一起就是開心的玩了只要他們說姑姑來了就會大叫yeah 那你就成功了. They need fun in life and you are the most fun and safety combination in their life.
如果爸媽不能去他們的school event 你就去。穿的漂漂亮亮的去跟老師說個兩句幫小孩子做做面子也讓老師知道還有一個有氣勢的姑姑在看著。
whatever they do you encourage and support.
3 不用出太多錢買東買西。kids these days are very spoilt they have everything they want. No one remembers what you bought. 投資自己身上以後是個有錢的姑姑姨姨。trust me they will come visit you often and you will have a great time. Be nobody’s burden if you can. 人生就是這樣。
No expecatation, no disappointment .
大家都喜歡和有活力的人一起。stay healthy, stay engaging.
It’s very self center perhaps. But it works.
Lady Gaga said that you have to go to the deeper place of your heart to write songs sometimes it’s like open heart surgery.
My 12 year old student Brandon doesn't have to break his heart to write good songs. Where there is a purpose driven songwriting task my student Brendan seems to take very well.
We were talking about getting him and the other girls Sienna to do a duet together. Oh I have to do is to tell Brendan to write a song that he can sing with Sienna. With appropriate lyrics, range and write something that can bring out his good high note of G. I am looking forward to see what he comes out with.
This documentary truly shows how talented Lady gaga is. She is also very real. I like lady gaga.
In Taiwan the kids really envy Aussie kids. The Aussie kids look so carefree. So much time for sports and have the picture perfect instagram life.
It’s not what you think.
The teen depression and anxiety is at all time high. The bully sitituation is very common too. They have loads of assignments and sports commitments too. Social media doesn’t do any benefits to their already complicated friendship problems.
Often Kids with broken family (which is way too common) suffer emotional issues too. I always hear about teenagers drug and alcohol addictions which is totally unheard of in my era.
It must be so hard to be the modern day parents. You can’t be old fashion but you can’t let them do whatever they want either.
Some kids can be two faces. They are so good in front of me and turn around can be a total different person in front of their parents or peers.
I have no solution though. But these days I can tell if they are not in the right mental state straight away.
I can only try my best.
It’s a part of growing up I guess.
Let’s just enjoy my sukiyaki hot pot full of wayu beef and forget about them . Sometimes I am really mentally exhausted just hearing their problem. I need solid good quality meat to eat.
Netflix has a series of documentaries called The story of God.
Fascinating questions and investigations of reincarnations and near death experiences of people . It goes into all religions and beliefs. I also like the way Morgan Freeman present it.
In the last part he has an interview with Fung Sui master I like the conversation she is on. She is doing his life chart but at the end saying the following:
"Birds don’t fly they are riding the winds. Fishes do not swim they are carried by water. Everything we are resulted to all the things that we are connected to . We can ride it . To ride the wind of life"
I like this YouTube channel. It’s short , clear and has lots of different clips within the content.
I especially like how the guy says “when I am 80 and look back what I have done. I will be regretting if I don’t do something. There will be no regret if I try and fail.”
Kmart sells this $5 cute notebook with 5 divisions. Looks like you must think of 5 different projects to put into. Since watching the clip last year I have started my 5 different projects.
One for my mosman music academy, one for a new business venture called SusieLilyCo that I started, one for properties, one for LIVE/SoundCloud/instagram (all social media experiences) and the latest one is this susiewang blog.
Of course some are income producing and some are not. That’s not the reason for these projects at all. Regardless it’s bringing money or not they are all going to make life more interesting with learning. If you do things only for money then it’s not the right thing to do.
Go to Kmart to get this $5 Notebook. It’s too cute and you might think of something to put in.
i am sure there are not many people who work for fun. I feel like I work for fun. The qualities of students I have now is really making me feeling like working for fun.
I never worry about money it’s week 5 and I don’t think I have checked my invoices being paid or not. All of them always do it on time . And I am not worried that if I don’t have students that I can’t survive. Even I don’t work for the rest of my life I can still survive. It’s a very comforting and blessed situation to be.
With the security on the back of my mind I am constantly on the look out to try things , with or without earning money. The other day a student of mine gave me such an awesome idea for business venture I am on the process of investigating it .
Teaching these singers are really quite fun. I constantly test my creativities and they do grow vocally, physically and spiritually and emotionally in front of my eyes.
Monday kids are lovely. I love them. Oh I am sure all the rest of them are too.
I have to pull my car to the side to take notes when I heard the interview with the ECO of Bumble Whitney Wolfe Herd .
"The most expensive currency in the world is experience. There is nothing better than experience you can’t buy it. Tapping with people who has experience and trust them. Not write off people with experience . Don’t try to figure out everything yourself . Give them the gift and allow them to help you" .
Quite an inspiration for control freak like me. Perhaps over confident control freak thinking I can learn and do everything.
They were mentioning about never call the person and ask to take them for lunch/dinner to pick their brain cause everyone is busy no one will be willing to do that. That's so true.
Ask for advice of others with the scenario providing your thoughts and solutions and then ask for their opinions. They will be more likely to answer.
Absorb the experiences. I love that.
"Feeling nervous and feeling exciting is the same thing" ---
The students always get so nervous before getting on stage.
The symptoms are the same. Your heartbeat gets so fast and you have trouble breathing and thinking . But the kids always tell me they are nervous .
I said you are excited !
When you are excited the body and mind steps forward .
When you are nervous the thought pulls you back.
The same situation, different thinking different belief and different result .
The universe is full of magical things patiently waiting for our wits to grow sharper.”― Eden Phillpotts